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Elly J Tomlin is a writer, lifelong student of human behavior, and passionate guide for personal growth. With over 30 years in media and leadership, she blends spiritual insight with practical wisdom to help readers better understand themselves and their relationships. The Enneagram Evolution and The Enneagram Evolved are the first books in a growing series designed to empower self-awareness, healing, and authentic connection.  Elly resides in Connecticut with her spouse and two sons, valuing time with family, framily and friends above all else. 

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The Enneagram Evolution

Discover Your True Self with The Enneagram Evolution

Are you ready to unlock the most powerful tool for personal transformation and meaningful connection?

The Enneagram Evolution by Elly J Tomlin is the essential beginner’s guide to understanding your true personality type and using that insight to grow into the best version of yourself. With wit, warmth, and clarity, this book breaks down the Enneagram system in a refreshingly relatable way—perfect for those just beginning their journey into self-discovery.

Through detailed descriptions of all nine personality types, including wings, arrows, and triads, you’ll gain a deep understanding of your strengths, struggles, and motivations. But this isn’t just about learning who you are—it’s about evolving. Each chapter includes practical tools, guided reflections, and real-life insights to help you embrace your growth path and improve your relationships.

Whether you’re a perfectionist, a helper, a challenger, or somewhere in between, The Enneagram Evolution is your starting point for transformation—filled with humor, heart, and a healthy dose of self-awareness.

Begin your journey today. Discover your type, understand your patterns, and evolve with intention.

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01 May

Elly J’s Call to Evolution

I am so appreciative and proud to say that I have been blessed with an amazing group of girlfriends. Most of whom have been in my life going on 20+ years. And we talk about everything under the sun. The good, the bad, the ugly. But the reality is 90% of those conversations are mostly surface level.

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