ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Meet Elly
Elly J Tomlin is a writer, lifelong student of human behavior, and passionate guide for personal growth. With over 30 years in media and leadership, she blends spiritual insight with practical wisdom to help readers better understand themselves and their relationships. The Enneagram Evolution and The Enneagram Evolved are the first books in a growing series designed to empower self-awareness, healing, and authentic connection. Elly resides in Connecticut with her spouse and two sons, valuing time with family, framily and friends above all else.
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The Enneagram Evolution
Discover Your True Self with The Enneagram Evolution
Are you ready to unlock the most powerful tool for personal transformation and meaningful connection?
The Enneagram Evolution by Elly J Tomlin is the essential beginner’s guide to understanding your true personality type and using that insight to grow into the best version of yourself. With wit, warmth, and clarity, this book breaks down the Enneagram system in a refreshingly relatable way—perfect for those just beginning their journey into self-discovery.
Through detailed descriptions of all nine personality types, including wings, arrows, and triads, you’ll gain a deep understanding of your strengths, struggles, and motivations. But this isn’t just about learning who you are—it’s about evolving. Each chapter includes practical tools, guided reflections, and real-life insights to help you embrace your growth path and improve your relationships.
Whether you’re a perfectionist, a helper, a challenger, or somewhere in between, The Enneagram Evolution is your starting point for transformation—filled with humor, heart, and a healthy dose of self-awareness.
Begin your journey today. Discover your type, understand your patterns, and evolve with intention.
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News & Update
Is Your Personality Helping You Thrive, or Just Helping You Cope?
How to Spot Your Shadow Side Based on Your Enneagram Type
The 27 Subtypes Explained (Without the Jargon)
How Millennials and Gen Z Are Using the Enneagram to Heal, Not Just Identify
5 Ways the Enneagram Evolved Helps You Break Free from Emotional Burnout
What is Your Enneagram Subtype and Why It Matters More Than You Think
Elly J’s Call to Evolution
I am so appreciative and proud to say that I have been blessed with an amazing group of girlfriends. Most of whom have been in my life going on 20+ years. And we talk about everything under the sun. The good, the bad, the ugly. But the reality is 90% of those conversations are mostly surface level.
A DEEP DIVE INTO PERSONALITY TYPES WITH ENNEAGRAM
The Enneagram constitutes a diverse personality system whose understanding facilitates the journey of self-discovery and self-improvement. There is, however, a multitude of routes to explore beyond the basic 9 personality types. Elly J.
ROLE OF ENNEAGRAM IN BUILDING YOUR RELATIONSHIP
One of the major uses of the Enneagram is how it can majorly influence relationships with family, friends, romantic partners, and even co-workers. Managing interactions with other people
JOURNEY TOWARDS SELF-DISCOVERY WITH THE ENNEAGRAM
These days, plenty of people have been trying to reconnect with their spiritual side and find new ways to pursue their purpose in life. For anyone wanting to awaken spiritually, the Enneagram is a phenomenal asset.
The Tea on Elly
Curious what readers are saying? Here’s the real talk — unfiltered reflections from people who have read The Enneagram Evolution and started their own transformation journey.
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“As someone new to the Enneagram, this book was an absolute game-changer. It’s not just informative; it’s a thrilling journey into the depths of self-discovery.”
— Verified Amazon Reviewer
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“This book was an incredible experience, taking me on a deep dive into self-discovery. Initially, I wasn’t the type to reflect deeply on who I am, but this book changed that.”
— Verified Amazon Reviewer
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“I’ve read other books on the Enneagram, but The Enneagram Evolution is the first one that actually made everything click for me. The way Elly explains it is so refreshing — no judgment, just real insights and encouragement.”
— Verified Amazon Reviewer